Oh dear
It seems that you all don't even know what actually went wrong. What's the reason for starting the conversation and now getting pissed off by what someone had said. Not because she's my friend and I'm going to defend for what she had said. I understand the reason for her typing all those words. But do you? Did you even try to understand? Did you even try to put yourself in her shoes? I can see her putting in effort because most of the time she was the one who initiated things. Maybe you did too. But why must you say that we are not initiating and putting in efforts in doings things? Assuming things or what? Get your facts right please.